Navigating the complexities of identity within Māoridom can often be a journey as intricate and storied as the whakapapa that defines us. My father hails from Ngā Puhi, the northern warriors known for their fierce independence and pioneering role in New Zealand’s history. My mother is from Taranaki, a tribe renowned for their resilience and deep connection to the land.
In a break from tradition, I find my identity anchored more firmly in my mother's Taranaki heritage. This choice reflects not just a personal affinity but also the unique path every Māori can walk within the wider whānau of iwi affiliations.
Growing up, I often felt like an outsider, sometimes perceived as different or less connected to my Māori heritage, partly due to my light complexion. These experiences left me questioning where I belonged within the wider whānau. However, just as a river carves its path over time, I came to understand that my appearance doesn’t define my connection to my roots. The proverb “Ahakoa he iti, he pounamu” — although it is small, it is precious — resonates with my journey. My identity, like that of all Māori, is shaped by the strength of my whakapapa and the depth of my connections, rather than by the colour of my skin.
Through embracing both sides of my heritage, I've learned the powerful lesson of diversity within unity. My journey is a testament to the resilience embedded in our culture, where identity is not defined by appearance but by the depth of our connections and the strength of our commitments to the traditions and values of our tīpuna.
As we share our narratives and embrace the full spectrum of who we are, we find that our stories are not just about preserving the past but about enriching our future. So, let us all cherish our roots, celebrate our unique paths, and continue to weave the rich tapestry that is Māoritanga.
Nāku iti nei, nā,
Kelly
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